Anyway, despite their progress in both going to sleep (without any sleep props other than being swaddled) and getting down to only one feeding per night, Caleb and I have still been anxiously awaiting the day when we can once again get a full night of uninterrupted sleep. I can not count the number of times the phrase "only 10 (8...5...3!!) more weeks until we can do cry it out" has been uttered in our household, particularly during the wee hours of the morning and more often than not, by Caleb. (Understandable, since the girls have more recently been waking up between 4-5am, which is often just shortly before Caleb has to get up for work, which makes it difficult for him to go back to sleep.) ANYWAY, I digress...
During the past few weeks, I've become more and more nervous about the prospect about actually implementing Cry it Out, in large part due to Riley's weight. We haven't had a doctor's appointment in about a month, but last time we went she only weighed 9 lbs, 3 oz. I recently read somewhere that babies have to be at least 12 lbs to have the stomach capacity to handle sleeping through the night without that extra feeding, and although Riley has been eating better with her Prevacid prescription, I'm not sure she's quite there yet. And I definitely didn't want to expect her to learn how to soothe herself to sleep if she wakes up starving...especially if her little stomach isn't large enough to hold enough milk to get her through the night. So despite Caleb's protests, I convinced him that we would at MINIMUM need to wait until the next doctor's appointment on March 12th to see what Riley's weight is (and discuss concerns with the pediatrician) before doing Cry it Out.
Well, there is apparently no need, as Harper and Riley decided on their own to start sleeping through the night last Wednesday. At EXACTLY 16 weeks. At first I thought it had to be a fluke, but they have slept through the night for the past four nights now, so I'm hoping this is our new pattern. Is this coincidence? Or our babies' way of rebelling against the idea of having to Cry it Out? Either way, we'll take it! :)
That is AMAZING! And I agree with the 16 weeks AND 12 pounds, but for my girls the weight minimum was never an issue :) In my opinion there are two benefits of cry it out: (1) a full night of sleep for everyone in the family; and (2) the ability to self-soothe to sleep. The later gets increasingly important as the child gets older, yet it is easiest to learn when the child is young. Keep up the great work! In my opinion the hardest part of having twins is already behind you!!!
ReplyDeleteThat's awesome news, Jen!!! Todd says that the Baby Nazi thing sounds like it has worked wonders. To me, it sounds like you have taught them to sleep, and they will sleep as long as they can. I love the new pictures of Harper and Riley... oh and Jan too!
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